Almost all Star Wars fans with children must have at one time or another imagined bestowing their kid with a name taken from the franchise. It was something Elisabeth and I imagined, long before we even had a little one of our own. With three positive pregnancy tests […]
Even before I was a Star Wars fan I believed in something like the Force. An energy that surrounds and penetrates, binding everything and everyone in one flow of existence. But since I gave birth, it’s provided me with a language for describing the indescribable; how I could […]
Everything is new through a newborn’s eyes, and so even simple things such as shopping take on a wondrous new life. There’s an innocence about the world again, some unspoiled beauty. This morning, Lorelei enjoyed her first trip to the shops. Though she’d been out once before in […]
By his own admission, the happiest day of Anakin’s life is finding out that Padmé is pregnant with his first child. Imagine his elation had he known she was carrying twins. In a life punctuated by pain, loss and longing, a moment of pure and perfect happiness is […]
Re-watching The Clone Wars as a father has provided new context for character relationships and the omnipresent threat to the galactic status quo. As well as presenting the infamous Clone Wars on screen, the animated series also served as prelude to Anakin’s fall to the dark side. […]
Star Wars is often thought of as the story of fathers and their sons. Despite the addition of the sequel trilogy and its complicated relationship between Han Solo and his troubled son Ben, the saga weaves the tragedy of Darth Vader, a tale told in two parts. First […]
For the first few days of a child’s life, it all feels very much like a collaborative affair. Raising a kid by committee, with the 24-hour midwife assistance, medical staff on hand and regular meals brought to your room. But after both baby Lorelei and mother had been […]
There’s a helplessness that comes with being a father or birth partner to a woman in labour. Just like the cliché, my duties were relegated to holding her hand, mopping the sweat from her brow and offering encouragement. This before the tears upon first seeing my baby daughter […]
After purchasing two weather-beaten droids to automate his family’s moisture farm, Owen Lars tasks his nephew Luke with cleaning them. After learning that C-3PO and R2-D2 fought in the rebellion, an excited Luke begs the protocol droid for more details. Alas, Threepio comes up blank. “I’m not much […]
Since I’ve been through the doubt and fear, the thrill and the hope of pregnancy for myself, Padmé’s tears and unfulfilled promises to Anakin in Revenge of the Sith have taken on something more of a potency. What I believed to be a ridiculous vow that she would […]
